Common Scenarios
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Strategic Planning
Beyond Decks: Strategy as Relational Design
The Pattern: You run annual strategy offsites. Create beautiful decks. Everyone nods. Three months later, nothing's changed.
Why It Fails: Strategy fails not because the plan is wrong but because you haven't designed the relational architecture to execute it.
How I Help:
- Facilitate strategy sessions that create genuine alignment (not performance)
- Design partnership ecosystems that enable strategic moves you can't make alone
- Build decision-making structures so strategy becomes action
- Create "strategy as learning" processes that adapt as you discover what works
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Change Management
Navigate Transformation Without Breaking What Works
The Pattern: You need to reorganize. New strategy requires new structure. But every time you try, resistance appears - people dig in, productivity drops, good people leave.
Why It Fails: Change management often ignores the emotional, relational, and unconscious dimensions. You're treating it like a rational process when it's fundamentally about loss, identity, and anxiety.
How I Help:
- Work with the human side: anxiety, resistance, grief over what's ending
- Surface and address unconscious dynamics blocking change
- Design transition processes that honor what was while building what's next
- Build change capacity so your organization can adapt continuously
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Innovation
Create Conditions for Emergence
The Pattern: You hire smart people, give them resources, create "innovation time." Nothing happens. Or lots happens but nothing ships. Or things ship but don't create value.
Why It Fails: Innovation doesn't happen inside silos, it happens at boundaries. You need relational infrastructure: connections to customers, to adjacent teams, to external partners, to market signals.
How I Help:
- Design organizational structures that enable innovation (not just authorize it)
- Build external partnerships and ecosystems that feed innovation
- Create cross-functional collaboration that actually works
- Develop team skills in navigating ambiguity and creative conflict
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Team Management & Culture
Build Teams That Actually Work
The Pattern: Your team is talented but struggling. Conflict simmers beneath the surface. People are polite in meetings, frustrated afterward. Turnover is creeping up. Something's off but you can't name it.
Why It Fails: Most team problems are relational problems disguised as performance issues. You're managing tasks when you need to be tending relationships.
How I Help:
- Diagnose team dynamics (including unconscious patterns)
- Facilitate difficult conversations that have been avoided
- Build team skills: dialogue, conflict navigation, feedback, repair
- Design team structure, rituals, and norms that support healthy relating
- Coach leaders in creating psychological safety
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Partnership Strategy
From Contracts to Ecosystems
The Pattern: You sign partnership after partnership. Some deliver, most disappoint. You're not sure why some work and others don't. You suspect you're leaving value on the table.
Why It Fails: You're managing partnerships like contracts (deliverables, SLAs, quarterly reviews) instead of relationships (mutual value creation, joint learning, co-evolution).
How I Help:
- Map your ecosystem: who creates value, how it flows, where it's blocked
- Design partnership depth spectrum (transactional → coordinated → collaborative → ecosystem)
- Build partnership capabilities in your team
- Facilitate key partnership transformations
- Create governance and rhythms for ongoing partnership health
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AI Adaptation
Navigate the Relational Disruption of AI
The Pattern: You're adopting AI tools. Some teams embrace it, others resist. Workflows are changing but collaboration patterns haven't caught up. People are anxious about their roles. You're not sure how to organize work anymore.
Why It Fails: AI isn't just a technical shift, it's a relational one. How work flows, who does what, how people collaborate, what roles mean, everything is up for grabs. Most companies focus on tools and miss the relational transformation required.
How I Help:
- Redesign workflows and collaboration patterns for AI-augmented work
- Navigate the emotional landscape: anxiety, identity shifts, resistance
- Rethink team structures and decision rights as AI changes what humans do
- Build adaptive capacity so you can continue evolving as AI advances
- Address soft skills that become MORE important with AI (judgment, relational intelligence, creative collaboration)